Since the age of 13

by tina g

Around the age of 13 I got infected I was little and scared when I found out I might have herpes only during some time around that age I had some itches on my down part ever since then I haven't had anything and now im 18 and I have a boyfriend of 8 months who has gone down on me and idk if he might get infected it's been years with nothing on my down side and I have never gone doctor cause I'm just embarrass and scared I have try not let my boyfriend go down on me but he just went down what to do? I'm not sure what I have?