I may have given herpes to the love of my life.

The other day I had sex with my girl friend. Directly after I had noticed 3 large bumps on my shaft that looked like herpes. The next day i had one on my lip. If i had seen these one day sooner i wouldn't have had sex with her until i got tested. I haven't got tested yet but I'm sure it is herpes. I love her with everything in me and i cant live knowing what i may have done to her. I slipped up one night drunk and that's where i must have gotten it. This is my first outbreak. There is no pain at all and only about 3 total small sores that went away in about 5 days. I don't know how to tell her and i don't think I'm going to until i get tested so am 100% sure. We have been together for 5 years and both are 21. I will deal with my problem i just pray to God she doesn't have to because of my faults.

I just don't know if it is herpes or not. I have no flu symptoms or pain. The bumps on my shaft don't hurt but look like a very small outbreak of herpes. The one on my lip went away in about 5 days and did not hurt. Doesn't appear to have any fluid inside. It just looks like herpes and is in the same spot just under the tip on my shaft that most pictures of male herpes seem to be.

I just pray my girl friend will be spared if i am positive. I will have to live with this but she does not deserve to. I just wish i had seen these sooner.