My husband cheated on me and I took him back and now I have Genital herpes. I am so so sad and have been crying most of the night. I wish That I wouldnt have taken him back. I feel so so stupid. I feel like it is my fault for taking him back even though I did not know that he had it.No I cant even look at him.I dont know if we will stay together,but I feel like damaged goods and no one else will ever want me.I have been completely faithful to my husband for our entire marriage of 12 years. It is not fair.how do you tell someone that you have herpes. I am so depressed. WHY ME??????????