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Husband cheated

My husband cheated on me and I took him back and now I have Genital herpes. I am so so sad and have been crying most of the night. I wish That I wouldnt have taken him back. I feel so so stupid. I feel like it is my fault for taking him back even though I did not know that he had it.No I cant even look at him.I dont know if we will stay together,but I feel like damaged goods and no one else will ever want me.I have been completely faithful to my husband for our entire marriage of 12 years. It is not fair.how do you tell someone that you have herpes. I am so depressed. WHY ME??????????

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Aug 31, 2010
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by: Anonymous

I too was just diagnosed with genital herpes. My husband had a 3 day fling with an old schoolmate. Lying to me telling me he was going on a golf trip when instead was really flying to New Hampshire to be with her. Upon his return and not aware (obviously)of the affair we had sex. When I did find out about the affair it was too late and I had been infected. I too feel like damaged goods, that I could never tell another partner that I had this virus and that I have no choice but to stay with my husband. I understand completely how you are feeling. We are 39 and 40 years old and have been married for 11 years. I NEVER thought this would happen the affair, the heartbreak and definitely not herpes. The worse part about this is 1 she has completely disappeared into nowhere and 2 my husband has had absolutely no signs of an outbreak. Me on the other hand have had 3 in 3 months. I feel so dirty I won't even wash my children's clothes with ours. I am so ashamed!

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